How the Heck Does a Kegel Work?
You can do a Kegel from wherever you're sitting or laying down, and that's what makes them pretty much awesome. Simply clench your vaginal muscles together, kind of like when you're holding in a fart (yes, really, that's it!). You'll feel your butt cheeks and thighs clench up at the same time.
To check that you're doing it right, use those same muscles to stop the flow of urine the next time you're on the toilet. If the stream stops, you're doing it right. Now clench and hold, and see how long you can keep those muscles flexed. Ideally, aim for 5–10 seconds clenched, and then release. Congrats! You've done your first Kegel.